Fundamentals

A Counter-Intuitive Approach to Progress

An alternative way of viewing progress other than the ‘onwards, always onwards’ approach. Instead of pushing forwards, try moving at the speed of the slowest part of you. Sometimes you have to go back and attend to the part (or parts) of you that’s digging its heels in so you can move forward with greater…

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The Common Misconceptions About Power

There’s a lot of hype these days about owning your power. I like it, it’s a good thing. Collectively we are waking up to the fact that we have power and noticing the ways we give and have been giving that power away. I’ve specialised in helping people own their power and live their truth…

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Phases of Learning

steps - phases of learning

Trying to run before you can walk? The four stages of competence. An oldie but a goodie and a powerful model for learning, reminding us that learning is a process which goes through particular phases. There is a process to learning that in our fast-paced, immediate culture people try and skip. Learn more about the…

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Your Inherent Feminine Power

Do you know how inherently powerful you are as a woman? I’m not talking about the ‘I am woman, hear me roar’ kind of power, which is a reaction and has it’s place, but our natural, innate and inherent power. At its core, Boss Ass Living is about reclaiming your inherent power as a woman…

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The Obstacle Is The Path

Japanese bridge. The obstacle is the path

“The obstacle is the path” Old Zen saying I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately, especially as nothing in my life goes according to plan. Aside from how we respond, I wonder how much control we really have. I know this can be a scary thought. We need the illusion of control, or else……

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How To Find Clarity When You’re Feeling Confused

Most people don’t like to feel confused.  It’s foggy, you have to hang out in the unknown, you don’t feel in control, you are unsure of what to do, you feel overwhelmed by problems or by the possibilities available to you. Either way, it’s not fun for most people to feel confused and not know…

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Self-Care As A Way Of Being

self care

When we talk about self-care, we usually talk about what we’re going to do. Although acts of self-care are very important, there is a piece before that. Are we being self-caring when we do self-care? An act of self-care if not coming from a place of love could be self-punishment in disguise. I’d love to…

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Who am I?

It started with a question… If you could do anything in the world and was guaranteed success, what would you do?  I was a 25 year old woman with an extremely unfulfilling job in Recruitment. I’d been doing it for a few years and the adrenaline of hitting targets and making good money was really…

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What is a Queen?

*** This post is part of a series of posts that define commonly used terms on this site. Since people often use the same words but mean different things which leads to misunderstanding I decided to be explicit and clear about the meaning of certain important words and terms pertaining to this site.   ***…

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What does Boss Ass Living even mean?

*** This post is part of a series of posts that define terms commonly used terms at Boss Ass Living. Since people often use the same words but mean different things leading to misunderstandings,  I decided to be explicit and clear about the meaning of certain words and terms related to this site. *** Words…

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