Are you an Innovator, Visionary Leader or Game Changer in your work or your family?

Welcome to Boss Ass Living, you're so in the right place!


I’m Lola Fayemi - a Transformation Specialist, Leadership and Relationship Systems Coach (amongst other things). I support Innovators like you with their leadership development. Allowing you to finally be liberated from who you THINK you are and be who you TRULY are.


A powerful Queen who lives, loves and leads with authenticity and authority. In full permission of being sovereign over your own life.

You're welcome! 


“Your decision to walk creates the path ahead.” Paulo Coelho


People that are drawn to my work are the innovators of their work or families. They are more energised by the thought of creating new ways and repelled at the idea of adapting to the existing ways at work, home and in their relationships.


You are usually:

Misunderstood - You are the black sheep at work and/or in your family. You don't feel bound by the same rules as everyone else. They just don't get you.

Impatient - As an Innovator you're ahead of the curve. You see things really quickly and differently from others. You feel frustrated by them not seeing it as quickly or the same as you. 

Unfulfilled - Walking a prescribed path just doesn't hit the spot, it's not enough for you. You wonder how the hell others do it. 

Burnt out - All this pushing  and going against the grain is taking a toll on you. You need to learn to innovate without burning out. It is possible!

As you get out of your own way and harness your authentic feminine power, some of the things that will happen are:

Your purpose will become clearer; you will know how you can positively impact people’s lives

You will develop healthy, harmonious and loving relationships in all areas of your life; with others, your body, your finances and most importantly, yourself!

You will give yourself permission to enjoy life’s pleasures without guilt (like delicious food, pampering and sex!)

You will see a fulfilling, exceptional life is unfolding before your eyes


I whole-heartedly recommend Lola as a coach and professional, especially to leaders, powerful women and men, people who are looking to stop playing small and make a difference in their work and community.

- Laura, Certified Coach and Somatic Facilitator


If your heart knows you are meant for an exceptional life and not an average one, you're in the right place.


Your soul is calling you to contribute to something much larger than yourself.


Though you may not have full clarity on who to serve or how to help, you know you're here to support progression not stagnation.

The answer lies in your leadership and owning your Queen vibe.

When you step into and own your Queen vibe, you choose a different way of being in the world - YOUR TRUE WAY.

Own your innovative and visionary nature, embody it and enjoy greater impact

Live your potential and grow into the person that does the work your soul is calling you to do

Honour and meet your own needs and let go of being the martyr or victim. Self-sacrifice is not required where you are going

Liberate yourself from outdated and inherited rules and obligations and choose to live how YOU want to (while still being the best parent, partner, lover, business owner you can be)

Stop wasting your time, talent and energy on drainers and consciously pour it into things that bring you meaning and leave you nourished and fulfilled on a soul level (like that business your clients are waiting for.)


"Talking to Lola helped me make things in my life click! ....Lola has helped me to shine.”

- Alicia, Non-profit Executive



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