Posts by Lola Fayemi
Create Your Own Lane
Not feeling like part of the mainstream? Maybe you’re not here to fit in. Maybe, just maybe, you’re here to help change our society. You’ll only make the contribution you wish to by staying out of others’ lanes and creating your own.
Read MoreThe Truth About Transformation
Something I hear a lot in various guises is… “I was doing so well, I was feeling great and really positive and then I don’t know what happened, it all went wrong. I must have fallen off the wagon and I just need to get back to where I was when I was feeling good.”…
Read MoreWhat Is Your Core Truth?
Stripped right back, Boss Ass Living is about truth. Core truth. It’s a phrase that gets bandied around a lot here. So, what is it?
Read MoreReclaiming Motherhood
Living a Boss Ass life is a process of reclaiming your power over parts of your life where it may have been given away. Boy oh boy is motherhood one of those areas that comes with heavy and historic common narratives that, surprise surprise, I don’t buy into! Mother’s Guilt is something I was…
Read MoreYou’ve Got 2 Choices: Courage or Cowardice
Courage or cowardice; cowardice or courage – what’s it to be?
They’re basically two sides of the same coin with something very significant in common:
They both require fear.
Read MoreLet’s Talk About Forgiveness
Can I be honest about something? I don’t really get forgiveness. Don’t get me wrong I don’t walk around with loads of grudges, quite the opposite actually. I’m a fairly happy-go-lucky, thick-skinned kinda gal but I don’t fully get it. I mean beyond the intellectual understanding of it. I think the word is quite…
Read MoreWho am I?
It started with a question… If you could do anything in the world and was guaranteed success, what would you do? I was a 25 year old woman with an extremely unfulfilling job in Recruitment. I’d been doing it for a few years and the adrenaline of hitting targets and making good money was really…
Read MoreWhat is a Queen?
*** This post is part of a series of posts that define commonly used terms on this site. Since people often use the same words but mean different things which leads to misunderstanding I decided to be explicit and clear about the meaning of certain important words and terms pertaining to this site. ***…
Read MoreWhat does Boss Ass Living even mean?
*** This post is part of a series of posts that define terms commonly used terms at Boss Ass Living. Since people often use the same words but mean different things leading to misunderstandings, I decided to be explicit and clear about the meaning of certain words and terms related to this site. *** Words…
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