Work With Me

I guide neurodivergent women - diagnosed, self-identified or questioning ADHD, AuDHD or autism - through a process of recovering themselves, so they can begin building lives and work that genuinely honour who they are and how they’re wired.

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The Emergence Session

Realising you're neurodivergent later in life can explain your entire life overnight.

It can also completely destabilise everything you thought you knew about yourself.

If your old identity no longer fits and you're trying to make sense of what's changing,

start with The Emergence Session.

This work is for you if...

Your diagnosis has completely changed how you see yourself and relate to your life

Your old way of functioning no longer works so well, or at all!

You feel in between identities and unsure who you're becoming.

You're depleted from years of masking and trying to keep up.

How I Work

Though I am a certified and very experienced coach, my work goes beyond coaching and draws upon modalities like Human Design, Numerology, EFT/Tapping and energetic tools.

This work isn’t about fixing yourself because I don't see you as broken. It’s about creating the space to pause, see clearly and begin untangling the expectations you’ve been living by so you can live your truth, not your conditioning.

Together we:

  • Untangle the standards and expectations you've internalised
  • Understand your nervous system, ADHD and neurodivergent energy patterns and how you're actually wired
  • Rebuild a sense of success on terms that genuinely work for you
  • Create a life and way of working that is sustainable, not performative
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Emergence

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The old map no longer works.
Something is changing. Let's find out what.

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Nervous system support

Understanding isn't enough.
You can't think your way out of this one.

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Go deeper

Come home to yourself.
Live your truth, not your conditioning.

Once you stop forcing yourself into structures that don’t fit, you can begin finding the ones that do.

Women Who Work With Me Often Find Themselves

  • Understanding their ADHD or neurodivergence more deeply
  • Recognising where they’ve been overriding themselves
  • Releasing standards that were never actually theirs
  • Defining success in ways that don’t burn them out
  • Restructuring their lives around what genuinely fits
  • Understanding their ADHD or neurodivergence more deeply
  • Recognising where they’ve been overriding themselves
  • Releasing standards that were never actually theirs
  • Defining success in ways that don’t burn them out
  • Restructuring their lives around what genuinely fits

Testimonials

Here from the people I have worked with...

- Valeria

"The first words that come to mind are: understanding, guidance, growth, grace and empathy.
Lola is very insightful and was instantly capable of helping me understand how I was feeling and what was in my way. I learned so much about myself and how to apply what I learned.
I always felt very comfortable sharing personal thoughts and experiences. Never judged. Always listened to and understood.

Thanks to working with Lola, I came away with more confidence, a better understanding of myself and what I want — and the courage to move into places I had never before.”

- Claire

"Working with Lola has been absolutely life-changing. When we started, I was burned out, emotionally shut down and stuck in unhealthy patterns at work and at home. Lola created such a safe, authentic space that I finally felt able to be honest with myself and my emotions.

Through our sessions and the tools she shared, I completely shifted my work–life balance, left a role that was draining me, and learned to listen to my body and nervous system instead of pushing through everything. Our work together also led to my ADHD diagnosis, which has been a major turning point in understanding and supporting myself.

I now feel calmer, more at peace, and able to experience real joy. I’m no longer relying on old defence mechanisms and I’m stepping into a new chapter with far more self-compassion and confidence. I’m incredibly grateful for Lola’s support and wouldn’t be where I am today without her.”

- Zoe

"Lola is amazing! She is great fun to work with and very inspiring. She is great at digging deep and getting the best out of you in the session. She is very professional but with a fun and kind edge. She is INCREDIBLE! Highly recommended!”